Thursday, December 31, 2009

Our Christmas in China/God's Redemption

As we are waiting at the Hong Kong airport to begin our long trek home, I am overwhelmed at all that has happened in the last few months. Just over two months ago, we did not even know about a little girl in a Chinese orphanage named Lian Jia Jing. I woke up the morning of October 21 with a picture of her precious little scowling face sitting in my email inbox. Without even knowing the seriousness of her medical condition, I knew she was our daughter.

Fast forward to the day we got her ... the significance of Lia Kate's Gotcha Day is that it marked two months to the day we first saw her face! This is insanely fast in terms of Chinese adoptions. We are so thankful that God flung open the doors for our paperwork to go through so fast.

While we never imagined this adoption would cause us to miss Christmas with Britton, us jumping at the chance to bring our daughter home meant fewer days that Lia Kate had to spend in an orphanage. It meant that we were blessed with the gift of our daughter this Christmas (what better gift??). And it means we got to experience the beauty of adoption and God's redemptive plan for Lia Kate at a time when we celebrate God's story of redemption for us in the birth of Jesus Christ. I can't think of a better way to have spent this Christmas.

As we are waiting at the airport for our flight home, I am suddenly sad knowing we are taking her away from the home of her birth, from where they speak her native language, from where her only blood relatives live, from the only place and things and people that are familiar to her. It is a surprisingly heavy burden. But on the other hand, this precious child is now our daughter and has a family and a home, thanks only to the grace of God.

We are so thankful for all your prayers for us, and for all of your encouraging comments and your unwavering support along this journey. Especially thankful to our mothers who took such good care of Britton, and for all of our dear friends and family who offered their support and made this adoption possible. We can't wait to introduce you to our Lia Kate!

We'll be home soon!

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

Prayers for all of you and special commendations to both grandmothers, neither of whom called for help! Britton must have been his "old self" instead of his "terrible two" persona :)

Looking forward to seeing all of you and meeting Lia Kate. mm

Unknown said...

Can't wait to see all of you...
Praying for you on the trip home.
Love you all,
GrandMarna

Unknown said...

Emily, You are so sensitive to what Lia Kate is experiencing. God has truly and divinely ordained you to be her mom. It is obvious that He knit your heart to hers long before you saw her face. What a blessing you are to her, and I know she is to you as well. Praying for your return and for the first meeting of brother and sister:). Love, Dana Smith

Anonymous said...

oh i can't wait!! i can't wait! i can't wait! i know we can't hold her but i can't wait to just LOOK at her in REAL LIFE!! oooooohhh! what a blessing your family has been to me and to so many. thank you for being so willing to share God's AWESOMENESS!!!!!! love Lizard

The Giffen Family said...

Can't wait to see y'all on Sunday -- we are SO very excited to get to have some special time with B while y'all recover or just have some "hometime" with EK. We'll love on her just as much as she allows and look forward to bonding with her as the weeks, months, and years progress. Thank you for making us the proud Aunt & Uncle to two VERY special kiddos!

All our love -
R, D, & W

Elizabeth said...

Love the new pictures of her! I hope you have a safe trip back to the states. I know you can't wait to see Britton and introduce him to his new sister!! Thanks for sharing your journey. It has been so neat reading about sweet Lia Kate!!

Mary-Dare said...

Praying for peaceful travel. So precious how you already think of Lia Kate's every need. I know you can't wait to squeeze your little monkey back in the states. Love ya'll

Anonymous said...

Dana said it all! What precious time this has been. Thanks for sharing it all with us. Has been great reading day by day. Love you both, and all four! Great to watch a family be formed and brought together in such a way. What a picture of God's love for all of us! Thanks.
Cathe C.

Laura Bennett said...

Beautiful! Thanks for sharing your delivery day with me! I hope to share ours soon! :-D

Julia said...

Welcome home! We can't wait to see a new family picture!